Prayer For Couples Preparing For Marriage

Lord of life and love, we pray for all who are preparing for
marriage; for those who are already married and for those who
find their marriages difficult. Be with them all; in their joy
and sadness, their hope and their expectations, and above all,
help them to understand that you hold them in love each
moment of their lives. We ask this through Jesus Christ our
Lord. Amen

The Grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, and
the love of God, and the fellowship of the
Holy Spirit, be with us all, now, and forever.

Our Father, who art in heaven,
hallowed be thy name;
thy kingdom come; thy will be done;
on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive those
who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation;
but deliver us from evil. For thine is
the kingdom, the power and the glory,
for ever and ever.

Dear Lord, I am praying to you to help me in preparing for our wedding. My husband and I are having problems in our finances and I worry that I may not plan and budget our wedding well. My husband does not approve of all my suggestions and I'm having a hard time looking for possible cheap suppliers.

I really don't know what to do now. I always tell him that if he's not ready to shell out some money for our wedding, it's just fine with me. We might as well cancel our wedding plans. But he would always say that he wants to push through with it. I am not longing for a grand wedding. I just want a simple and memorable one but getting married here is really costly. We've been together for 15years and I even never thought that he'll have plans of marrying me.

Though it will be my privilege to receive our Lord's blessing in the sacrament of marriage. Please help me Lord. Please bring to me to people who are going to be a big help for this wedding. If this will push through, I hope everything will turn out fine and beautiful. I leave it all up to you my Lord.

Please bless and enlighten my husband on this preparation. Thank you.

Dear God,

We praise you for your love and faithfulness. We thank you for huge grace. We thank you that you give us the power to love well. Thank you for my spouse. Thank you for the gift of marriage. Thank you that you're for us; that you fight for us. Thank you that you are Redeemer, and you have good in store. We confess, some days, marriage gets tough, and we blow it again. We ask that you would make us more like you. Please fill our marriage and lives with truth and cover it with blessing.

Lord, we pray for

Adoration - My beloved is mine and I am his. Song of Songs 2:16

Belief "Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved-you and your household." Acts 16:31

Blessing - He blesses the home of the righteous. Prov. 3:33

Commitment - "Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken." Ecc. 4:12

Courage - Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go." Josh. 1:9

Discernment - And it is my prayer that your love may abound more and more, with knowledge and all discernment, so that you may approve what is excellent, and so be pure and blameless for the day of Christ. Phil. 1:9-10

Encouragement - Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. Ephesians 4:29

Endurance Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends. 1 Cor. 13:7-8

Faithfulness - Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. Then you will win favor and a good name in the sight of God and man. Prov. 3:3-4

Favor - May the favor of the Lord our God rest on us, establish the work of our hands Ps. 90:17

Forgiveness - Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you. Eph. 4:32

Friendship Two are better than oneif either of them falls, the one will lift up his companion. Ecc. 4:9-10

Fruitfulness - But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Gal. 5:22-23

Generosity - A generous person will prosper; whoever refreshes others will be refreshed. Prov. 11:25

Gentleness Walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. Eph. 4:1-3

Grace - Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone. Col. 4:6

Health - Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones. Prov. 16:24

Hope - For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you hope and a future. Jer. 29:11

Humility - Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. Phil. 2:3-4

Integrity Whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but he who makes his ways crooked will be found out. Prov. 10:9

Intimacy - Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 1 Cor. 7:5

Joy - May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth. Prov. 5:18

Kindness She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue. Prov. 31:26

Love - May the Lord make your love increase and overflow for each other 1Thess. 3:12

Oneness - They are no longer two but one flesh. What God has joined together, let no man separate. Matt. 19:6

Peace - May there be peace within your walls Ps. 122:7

Protection The Lord is faithful. He will establish you and guard you against the evil one. 2 Thess. 3:3

Provision - And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Phil. 4:19

Purity - Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight, O Lord, my rock and my redeemer. Ps. 19:14

Purpose And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. Rom. 8:28

Respect - Let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband. Eph. 5:33

Self-Control For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control. 2 Tim. 1:7

Servant-Hearted - As for me and my household, we will serve the Lord." Josh. 24:15

Strength - The Lord gives strength to his people; the Lord blesses his people with peace. Ps. 29:11

Submission - Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Eph. 5:21

Thankfulness - Pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus. 1 Thess. 5:17-18

Trust - There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. 1 John 4:18

Understanding Husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way 1 Peter 3:7

Value - A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Prov. 31:10

Wisdom - Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. Prov. 4:23

Let your favor shine on us as we seek after you.

In Jesus' name,


Heavenly Father we come before you to thank you for all you have done and continue to do in our lives and marriage. We come before you today, God, asking for a stronger bond of unity in our marriage covenant.

Father we ask that you will give us the ability to be a united front for you letting nothing come between us.

Help us, Father to identify and work through anything that is not pleasing to you so we can continually reach higher levels of unity in our marriage spiritually, physically, and mentally.

We are thankful and excited to see the work of your hand as we do our best to seek your face daily. We love you and thank you for all of these things.

Father, your greatest command was to love You and love each other. You've given marriage as a holy relationship that reflects our relationship with You. Show us how to follow your example and set aside our selfishness and pride and humbly serve each other. Help us to be of one spirit and of one mind and value each other above ourselves, looking out for each other's interests. In the midst of our busy lives, help us take time to love each other deeply from the heart, as you have loved us. May the love we have for each other be an example to the world of how You love them and gave Your life for them.

Lord, I pray for your peace to rule richly in my marriage and in my home. You said in your Word that the peace you give passes all understanding. I receive that peace right now. I choose to let the peace of Christ rest in my heart. As the peace of Christ rest in my heart, it will extend to my marriage.