Prayer For Ex Boyfriend
Almighty God, giver of life and love, comfort me in my new loneliness. Give me patience to wait until there is peace between us, and then help me find the right words to speak to the one I love. Amen.
God of all creation, you who spoke a simple command and brought forth light from
the darkness, I ask you now to send forth your miracle-working power to heal (Marty's
mentally ill ex boyfriend). You cleansed the lepers, opened the eyes of the blind and by
speaking a simple command, you empowered the crippled to rise up and walk.
You sent forth your life-giving power to all those in need, including those you raised from
the dead. I ask you to send forth your healing power into Marty's
mentally ill ex boyfriend's body and give him the strength to fight his illness. I ask this through my Lord, Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen
Merciful God, You are always near to us, especially when
we are weak, suffering, and vulnerable. Please reach out
to those who experience mental illness, especially Marty's
former boyfriend, for whom this prayer is offered. Grant
him the insight to recognize his negative behavior and
to seek professional help. Send Your holy angels
to protect Marty from any danger. We ask this through
the intercession of Our Lady of Lourdes and in the name
of her Son, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit, now and forever. Amen.
Dear God,
I come to you with my heart in my hands.
There are pieces of it that are missing, given to boys who couldn't love me the way I needed to be loved. There are arteries with tiny holes, for all the ways I've convinced myself I wasn't enough. There are veins that pump too wildly because sometimes there's just too much emotion happening in there. There are parts that are bruised; I haven't been so good with guarding what you've given me.
But my heart's still intact; though days like today it sure doesn't feel like it.
Today I come to you with this heart: this tired heart, this big heart, this silly heart that keeps giving itself away. I come to you with loss, with breakage, with fear for the future and how I'm ever going to let love back in. I come to you still wrestling with my feelings for a man who I'm no longer with, still trying to figure out if I can ever forgive him, ever let go of him, ever unlove him, or if I should.
I come to you with all of me, hoping that somehow you'll repair the damage, heal his and my soul again.
God, you've given me the gift of love. You've blessed me, blessed all of us humans with hearts to let others in, with the ability to connect in ways we can't even explain or comprehend sometimes. It's so wonderful. But sometimes I don't understand it.
Why do you let us fall for people who maybe aren't right for us? Why do you allow us to have such powerful emotions, such profound relationships if they're eventually going to fail? Why do you let us get cheated on, mistreated, broken, and left?
What's the lesson we're supposed to be learningTo not settle until we've found the real thing? To look for love like your love? To be strong in loss?and why must we learn it in such a painful way?
You brought this wonderful man into my life. You let me fall for him, let my heart become intertwined with his, let our lives grow together and shift and change. You allowed me to have feelings, deep feelings that sometimes I question looking back.
If he wasn't right for me, God, then why did you let me love him?
I guess that's one of the things I'll always wonder. Maybe you brought him into my life to teach me how to let others in. Maybe he was supposed to be a blessing for a time, but also a lesson. Maybe he was pulling me away from you, so you let us fall apart.
Maybe we were meant to be temporary, not permanent because we belong to other people. Maybe our breakup will make me stronger in time.
But God, it's so hard to know your purpose sometimes. It's so hard to make sense of the ache in my chest. It's so hard to look at photos of him and remember what we hadwas it all for nothing?
I come to you today with my heart in fragments. I come to you today with bitterness and anger, with doubt and frustration, with loneliness and fear. I come to you, wondering why. I come to you questioning whether or not I made a mistakeIs it possible that I should still be with him? It is possible to forgive him and let him go?
God, my heart feels tired. Tired of being stepped on. Tired of being left. Tired of being taken advantage of. Tired of being given to the wrong person, only to end up empty in the end.
I need you to renew strength in me. And I need you to help me forgive him.
Please give me the strength to let goof the past, of the pain, of him. Help me to see that the way he treated me doesn't define me, that my broken heart is not who I am, that I will find love again. Show me that you
are here for me, and that if I trust you with my heart, you will guide me to the right person and onto the right path, no matter how far I have strayed.
Father, please be with this boy I loved. Show him how powerful you are, how big your heart is. Show him the love you want for hima love that is pure, passionate, and honorable to both him, and you.
Show him forgiveness and a change of heart. Show him a new path to walk on. Show him acceptance and grace and mercy. Show him that he is a good person, and that he should never let a relationship pull him away from you. Show him that I have forgiven him, and please help that to be true.
Because I do think I've forgiven him, when I close my eyes and open my heart. But I need your strength to help me continue in that forgiveness, even when I remember the bad times between us, even when I feel lonely, even when I'm reminded of how we fell apart.
God, give me the strength to let go and pursue love again. Give me the compassion to move on from what's been lost and follow in your ways. And please, bless this man I loved and watch over him, too. We may have gone our separate ways, but I still thank you for putting him in my life.
Maybe I won't know the reason now, but he showed me love for a period of time, and even though my heart still aches, I know in time I will understand it was all a part of your plan.
Forever yours,
Amen.
Please, God, I'm hurting and I need Your help. He left me, and it's like he killed me. I don't know how to go on. I don't know how to fix this. I feel like he died too, because he's gone from my life. I have lost him, but I still love him. I wish he still loved me. I miss him so much. I want him back so bad. This hurting is awful, and I don't know how to make it better.
Please, God, help me understand. What did I do wrong? What did I do to deserve this? Was he lying when he said he loved me?
I'm asking You, God. I'm not strong enough to face this without You. Please, hold me up. Hold me close to You, and let me share Your strength.
Lord, please, why would You let this happen? Is this my fault? I need to understand, Lord, why he would rather be alone, than be with me. Does he have someone else? Why would he rather be with her, than be with me?
God, Thy will be done, but please let it be Your will to bring him back to me. Be with me, and help me understand him. Help me to be what he wants what he needs. Help us work things out. Please God, make him talk to me, and be with us to help us communicate.
I'm begging You, Lord, to bring us back together. Let that be Your will, please. Let him belong to me, and me to him.
Amen.
Dear Heavenly Father,
Lord Jesus I love you. Father God I know that you brought my ex into my life. I know you had a hand in it when I asked for him. Jesus please forgive me for any sin I have in my life and for any responsibility I hold for the destruction of our relationship. Jesus please in your name father, bring him back into my life for reconciliation. Please Jesus open up his heart. Remove any pride, anger, or pain he has in his heart towards me. Jesus I ask in your name for a miracle that he will reach out to me. I pray that your hand will be in it. I pray that you will walk with us and that we will hold you above us and leader of our relationship. I pray Lord that we would move towards marriage together. God I know that this would have to be nothing but your works and a pure miracle. I pray that anyone who reads this will be in agreement with me Jesus. I pray that during this time of separation that you are working on both of our hearts. That you are refining us so that one day we will serve you. Jesus please. I beg this of you and pray with tears. God give me peace. Give me direction. Help me Jesus to trust this to you. To give you him. Holy Spirit please intervene on my behalf. I ask this Father in your precious Holy Name. By your blood. Amen.
Lord, Thank you for everything you have done for me. When I was in heartache, distress, betrayed, cheated on, deceived, relentless, and hopeless you helped dig me out and as I stumbled when I began to walk you gave me strength, and when I ran out of breathe and fell back down you carried me.
You helped me get through the most difficult time in my life and I couldn't have done it without you and have come to realize now more than ever with you everything is possible and without you nothing can exist. Thank you Lord for carrying me when I had nothing left to give.
I also want to repent for all of my sins. All the wrong that I have done I want and strive to be better but become to easily tempted at times. I repent and I am truly sorry Lord.I want to do better and be better for you and those around me.I want to live more like Christ and do your will. Lord please guide me in being more like you intended me to be by keeping me in the right path, keeping the right people in my life and letting go of the wrong people in my life.
Lord I thankful for the clarity you have given me and I would like to pray for someone to attain the same clarity as you have extended to me. I pray that my ex boyfriend sees all the harm he had done by making bad choices and all the people he has hurt because of them. I pray that you fill him with the holy spirit to remove the curse in his eyes that stop him from seeing his actions and the people he is hurting so that he may repent and take responsibility for his actions. I pray that you show him the love he had for me and bring him back to me. I pray that all communication barriers become removed and all things keeping us apart all barriers become removed so he can find his way back to me. I pray he is protected from all those who wish him harm and are using him. I pray for a hedge of thorns around him so all that tempt him looses interest in him and he comes back to me. I pray all evil around him that is clouding his perception thoughts and sight leave his body and surroundings so that he can be freed from temptation. I pray all the negative people around him are removed from his life who are influencing him wrongly so he can see clearly and I also pray that he is able to leave without any bodily harm/ safely. I pray you help him find his way to me and I know only you Lord can make that happen because with you everything is possible.
Please Lord thank you for your many blessings continue to bless all those in my surroundings myself, all those in need of your love, all those who curse me, all those who love me, all those who are searching for clarity and the truth, all those blinded by love, all those who make excuses for others, and all those who don't know any better. Bless us all we all need your blessings from up above. Lord thankyou for everything you have done so far for me and everything you are about to do. I pray I depair leaves me and happiness finds me. Lord you know my heart and my situation please bless me, help me, and help him.
In Jesus name Amen
Father, please be with this boy I loved. Show him how powerful you are, how big your heart is. Show him the love you want for hima love that is pure, passionate, and honorable to both him, and you.
Show him forgiveness and a change of heart. Show him a new path to walk on. Show him acceptance and grace and mercy. Show him that he is a good person, and that he should never let a relationship pull him away from you. Show him that I have forgiven him, and please help that to be true.
Because I do think I've forgiven him, when I close my eyes and open my heart. But I need your strength to help me continue in that forgiveness, even when I remember the bad times between us, even when I feel lonely, even when I'm reminded of how we fell apart.
God, give me the strength to let go and pursue love again. Give me the compassion to move on from what's been lost and follow in your ways. And please, bless this man I loved and watch over him, too. We may have gone our separate ways, but I still thank you for putting him in my life.
Maybe I won't know the reason now, but he showed me love for a period of time, and even though my heart still aches, I know in time I will understand it was all a part of your plan.
Forever yours,
Amen.