Prayer For My Husband's Anger

In the name of Jesus, today I break any and all agreements I have with anger. I say that anger no longer has a place in my heart, soul, body, mind, will and emotions. I will live in the peace of the Kingdom of God. I declare that anger is hereby banished from my thoughts. No longer does anger have access to my mind. It must leave immediately and go into the pit and cannot return. My home is now a safe zone from the enemy and especially from the spirit of anger.

Also, in the name of Jesus, I declare the spirit of anger in my spouse must leave right now. I stand in authority over it by 1 Corinthians 7:14. My spouse in now protected and anger has no hold on my husband/wife or my children. The spirit of anger must go directly into the pit and never return. In the powerful name of Jesus. And I declare the blood of Christ over me, my spouse, my children and home. AMEN

Father,thank You for being a patient God. Thank You that Your mercies are never ending.

I pray You will give my husband a heart that is patient and understanding. One that will bear with others. Convict him to release any impatience, grudges, anger, jealousy or harsh words, so he will not stir up dissension. In its place teach him to be completely humble and gentle, being patient, bearing with other's in love.

Your word tells us a man's wisdom gives him great patience and that it is to his glory to overlook an offense. Grant him wisdom and discernment so he will be able to see all situations as opportunities to cultivate patience.

Oh Lord, thank You for my husband. Thank You for entrusting me with the blessing and responsibility of loving him well. There are certain aspects of our communication where we struggle and misunderstand one another. Please intervene. Give us clarity of thought and respect for each other. Help us perceive what the other person is communicating. Help us to have a gentle spirit toward each other.

Gracious Lord, James 1:19 says, Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry (NIV). Help my husband and me to remember this when we communicate with each other. Help us to always lead with love, and give each other the benefit of the doubt in understanding what the other seeks to communicate. Give us a relationship that's conducive to being open, honest and authentic with each other. Help us in our busy schedules to cultivate time to focus on communication. Give me courage to discuss those troubling areas in my life and marriage and not withdraw in silent or hidden frustration. Help me speak about these areas to my husband in love with open honesty. Grant my husband an open and receptive heart without anger or defensiveness. Please also add an element of greater spontaneity and fun into our communication. Let us flirt with each other more in what we say and how we say it, and revive in us a spirit of playfulness and cheer. In Jesus' Name, Amen.

Dear Lord,

I pray right now for the angry husband. Please calm his heart today. Allow him to know Your peace and give him a gentle and compassionate spirit for his wife. I pray against the spirit of wrath that he may be operating in and ask that you would replace all of his anger with your unfailing love. You say in your word that the wrath of man does not produce the righteousness of God so I ask that you would teach him how to pursue your righteousness daily.

In Jesus' name, AMEN!

Dear Lord, please send the Holy Spirit to enter the heart of my husband. He is a caring father to the family but has a painful anger towards me as his wife. I feel a deep hatred when i am close to him. Lord, please heal our hearts so that they become one through the connection of the Holy Spirit. Release all the anger, the hatred and carefree from my husband, and help him to be calm, loving and caring. In Jesus Mighty Name.

Father, I pray that ___ would learn to tap into the power of the Holy Spirit to be able to control his temper and exercise patience.

So often, our anger is a result of not being in control of circumstances. Help ___ to know and trust that You are fully sovereign over every detail of his life. May he rest in that knowledge, refraining from anger and turning from wrath.