Prayer For Angry Husband

Lord of Love,

I need strength

to be loving and kind

even when my husband

is cold and hard and angry.

Help me.

In Jesus' name I pray,


Loving Lord,

Look into my heart.

See the enormous emotional pain I am experiencing.

Pour your compassion on me.

Bring your mercy and miracles to me, to my husband, and to our marriage.

God, my husband needs to understand what he is doing to our family.

He needs to gain wisdom and understanding on how to change.

And he needs your strength and motivation in order to change.

Lord, bring new thoughts to my husband.

Bring thoughts that will
enable him to know
how to
reduce the tensions
that he feels during the day.

Bring thoughts of the value of gentleness.

Bring thoughts about the joy of peaceful conversation and peaceful resolution of problems.

Bring thoughts to him that make him feel successful and heroic and courageous - when he resists
the temptation to get angry.

I pray these things in the Miraculous and Mighty name of Jesus Christ,


Loving Lord,You are Mighty and worthy to be praised.

I ask that you would

help my husband with his anger.

May my husband feel


when he is resisting anger.

May he feel strong and rejuvenated

when he has won a battle with anger.

May he fully enjoy his victory when he has been

victorious over anger.

And may he

lose every ounce of desire

that he has


giving in

to anger in his life.

In Jesus' name I pray,



I feel so tired of struggling to deal with an angry husband.

Sometimes I feel so hopeless.

Refresh me today. Remind me of your enormous love for me. Comfort me and strengthen me.

Lord, I pray that you will intervene in this situation and do a miracle. Touch ________'s heart. Soften the hard, dry areas in his heart. Encourage him to walk down a path that leads to greater calmness, peace, and patience.

Lord, whisper your wisdom to him in times of tension.

Teach him how to experience calmness in the midst of frustrating circumstances.

Show him how to see opportunities for gentleness where he would previously only have seen opportunities for anger.

Mentor him in the day and even at night as he sleeps.

And help me to perceive instances of improvement in my husband - even small or sporadic instances of improvement.

Remind me to praise you for each ray of hope - no matter how small.

I pray these things in the Powerful name of Jesus,


Heavenly Father, relationships are one of the most important things You have given to us. And the marriage relationship is especially important, valuable and purposeful. I praise You for creating us as relational beings who can benefit from each other and build into each other. Thank You for the ability to communicate, whether through words, touch, texts or a myriad of other ways. I praise You for the desire You have placed within us to connect with others, and I ask that You increase that desire more in the days, weeks, months and years ahead.

Father,thank You for being a patient God. Thank You that Your mercies are never ending.

I pray You will give my husband a heart that is patient and understanding. One that will bear with others. Convict him to release any impatience, grudges, anger, jealousy or harsh words, so he will not stir up dissension. In its place teach him to be completely humble and gentle, being patient, bearing with other's in love.(Eph.4:2)

Your word tells us a man's wisdom gives him great patience and that it is to his glory to overlook an offense.(Pr.19:11) Grant him wisdom and discernment so he will be able to see all situations as opportunities to cultivate patience.

When people get difficult or plans don't hold out as expected, give him an accepting attitude. Help him see that Your will is never wrong and that the testing of his faith will include the testing of his patience. Help him clothe himself with kindness and compassion, (Col.3:12-13) putting others needs before his own.

Father, help him choose patience with his children. When they are tired or difficult, parenting gets tough. Help him be long suffering, realizing they are in need of being heard and loved. Before he speaks harsh words, remind him how You bear with him and are patient with him. Give him Your patient heart toward his children, wife, co-workers, friends, neighbors and all other relations.

Fill my husband with the knowledge of Your will through wisdom and understanding. I pray that he will live a life worthy of You and may please You in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God, being strengthened with all power according to Your glorious might so that he will have great endurance and patient. (Col.1:9-11) In Jesus' precious name. Amen.

Dear Lord,

I pray right now for the angry husband. Please calm his heart today. Allow him to know Your peace and give him a gentle and compassionate spirit for his wife. I pray against the spirit of wrath that he may be operating in and ask that you would replace all of his anger with your unfailing love. You say in your word that the wrath of man does not produce the righteousness of God so I ask that you would teach him how to pursue your righteousness daily.

In Jesus' name, AMEN!

Dear Lord, please send the Holy Spirit to enter the heart of my husband. He is a caring father to the family but has a painful anger towards me as his wife. I feel a deep hatred when i am close to him. Lord, please heal our hearts so that they become one through the connection of the Holy Spirit. Release all the anger, the hatred and carefree from my husband, and help him to be calm, loving and caring. In Jesus Mighty Name.