Prayer For Adulterous Wife
Today in Jesus name I reclaim my marriage for Christ. No man, no woman, no demon and no stronghold will separate what God has brought together. Satan, I now command you in the name of Jesus to get your hands off of my marriage. Foul spirit of adultery I command that you leave _________'s mind. Your powers were broken two thousand years ago at the cross. You have no right to touch or torment __________'s mind. I now cover my marriage, our home, our family and all that we have under the blood of Jesus Christ. I claim complete restoration for my home, my family and my marriage. I speak healing between me and my spouse and Lord I ask that you would bring your healing touch upon our relationship. I pray all of this in Jesus name. Amen.
HEAVENLY FATHER,
I LIFT MY HUSBAND UP BEFORE YOU AND PRAY FOR PEACE IN HIS HEART. SHOW HIM YOUR GRACE, LORD, AND HELP HIM SEE HIS WORTH IN YOUR EYES AND YOUR PLAN. I PRAY FOR LIGHT IN HIS LIFE, JOY IN HIS SPIRIT, AND CLARITY IN HIS MIND. ONLY YOU CAN SHOW HIM HIS TRUEST VALUE AND THE PURPOSE IN HIS WALK WITH YOU.
I PRAY THAT I CAN BECOME A BEACON OF YOUR LOVE AND FORGIVENESS, FATHER, AND CAN MAINTAIN THE STRENGTH AND FAITH HE NEEDS FROM ME.
THANK YOU FOR MY HUSBAND, GOD, AND MY LIFE WITH HIM. THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU HAVE GIVEN US AND YOUR LOYALTY TO FULFILL YOUR PROMISES.
IN JESUS' HOLY NAME,
AMEN
Dear Heavenly Father,
I really didn't know what I was getting into when I got married. Yes, of course, I prepared in some ways, and even tried to figure out some things ahead of time about what sex would look like in our marriage. But, as You know, Lord, it's different going through the experience and dealing with my unique husband. Also, I couldn't have foreseen the seasons we'd go through times when sex was good, and times when sex was a struggle.
I want to bring my concerns, my hurt, my longings all before You and lay them at Your feet. I cast all my anxieties on You because I know You care for me (1 Peter 5:7). Guide me to the path I should take and teach me Your way (Psalm 25:9).
Now let's start with this body You gave me. It's an amazing creation, able to accomplish so much automatically and at my will. I thank you for all the workings of my body that allow me to go through my days and do what I need to do. But when it comes to sex, it's not always been an easy road. At times, getting aroused with my husband can be difficult, and at other times, my body is ready to go when there isn't a chance in the world that we can have sex. How fair is that?! Orgasms can be like my best friend, eager to hang out with me, or my nemesis, avoiding me at every turn. I don't adore every inch of my appearance, my body does weird things in certain angles (like why is my stomach hanging down like that? blech), and flexibility feels like a thing of the past.I need to see myself how You see me, how You designed my body, and how You blessed me to be with my husband. I also need more understanding of my body and how to help it cooperate with the sexual intimacy I need and want to have in my marriage. Help me to identify real issues that need addressing through medical assistance or counseling or exercise, and to have the purposefulness and persistence to follow through. Place before me the right resources to deal with those concerns.Help me to feel beautiful. Give both me and my husband an acceptance and appreciation of my body's own sexuality and help us learn how I can experience both pleasure and intimacy in the marriage bed.
My God, I also struggle with my background. I brought baggage into my marriage teachings about sex that weren't in line with Your Word, experiences that colored my perception of sexuality, and labels that I carried in my mind about myself and about men. Please wash away all the debris and replace it with truth.
Help me step by step to replace the negative self-talk in my mind with messages that align with Your design for sex in my marriage. Help me to demolish every argument and pretension against Your will for my marriage bed, to take captive of every thought and make it obedient to Christ (2 Corinthians 10:5). Transform my mind so that I will know Your will for me, even in the bedroom (Romans 12:2).
You are a God who heals, so I also pray that You will heal any rifts between me and my husband. It is indeed good and pleasant when Your people live together in unity! (Psalm 133:1). Where my husband and I do not see eye-to-eye on sexual intimacy, I pray that we can move toward unity. Help us to listen to one another, to communicate about difficult issues, and to make the personal changes we need to make to find common ground.
And this weekend, today, even now, I pray that you'll open up my heart and my body to taking even one step in the right direction. While I long for a Red Sea moment, when You perform some great miracle that makes my marriage and marriage bed a perfect reflection of Your design, I recognize that more of my Christian life is walking faithfully with You. With Your Word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path, showing me only the bit of road ahead that I need to see (Psalm 119:105). Help me take my next step in the right direction, and the one after that, and the one after that. Until I am striding along on the road You want me to be on, and my husband and I are moving toward greater intimacy and more honor to You, our Father.
Lord, what I haven't said here, You already know. Where I don't know what to pray, the Spirit intercedes for me (Romans 8:26). You are, and will always be, my Savior.
In Jesus's name, Amen.
Lord, I ask u for strength I'm these hard times, I come humbly before you and ask you lord, to open my wife claudias eyes away from him, and let her see all the great things she is putting at risk for fun.
I ask you lord, please let her return and be the great mother she once was to our two beautiful children, that she can soften her heart and forgive me for the times I have failed her, and for her to be strengthened thru you to be able to leave her adulterous relationship, without falling back into temptation. Help us lord, please restore the love we once had, and please help me be the man that she needs me to be, so she can once again love me. In Jesus name I pray.. Amen
I plead the Blood of Jesus over her as I command her spirit and mind to be healed of every affliction of the enemy and be cleansed from every strange and unrighteous and lustful desire.
Lord teach me wisdom on what to say and do with my wife to win her back. Remove from me the spirit of bitterness, malice, argument and rancor. Grant me patience, love, maturity and forgiveness in dealing with my wife. Lord, bless me with divine strength so as not to faint or be discouraged in seeking the healing of my marriage.
Lord, I ask u for strength I'm these hard times, I come humbly before you and ask you lord, to open my wife claudias eyes away from him, and let her see all the great things she is putting at risk for fun.
I ask you lord, please let her return and be the great mother she once was to our two beautiful children, that she can soften her heart and forgive me for the times I have failed her, and for her to be strengthened thru you to be able to leave her adulterous relationship, without falling back into temptation. Help us lord, please restore the love we once had, and please help me be the man that she needs me to be, so she can once again love me. In Jesus name I pray.. Amen
Heavenly Father you know how broken my heart is. I feel hurt, abandoned, angry, confused and tormented. Lord, come into my heart and heal it. Touch every part of me that is broken and aching. Heal the hurt of my husband/wife betraying me. Heal the hurt of my husband/wife lying to me. Lord I have so many hurts please heal them all. Lord, give me wisdom. I'm not sure what to do. As you speak to me give me the courage to follow through.
Lord, give me new direction. I know with you all things are possible. I would ask that you would show my husband/wife the wrong he/she has done. Show him/her the pain he/she has caused. Convict him/her. Turn his/her heart around to want to do right. Give him/her a new heart. Lord, I am asking that you would heal our marriage. I know with you all things are possible. I pray my husband/wife would be willing.
In the name of Jesus I now pull down this demonic spirit of ADULTERY it has NO POWER over me, my spouse and our marriage. SATAN get your hands off of our marriage in Jesus name! I now claim healing, restoration, love and forgiveness over our marriage, our family and our relationship. I now confess that Satan's powers are broken and Jesus rules and reigns over our marriage. I now claim complete restoration in our relationship.
Lord, I cannot forgive him/her. I feel so much anger, hate and bitterness. Lord, I allow YOU to forgive him/her through me. Lord, during this time I ask that you would fill me with your love. You have never abandoned me. You have never forsaken me. I put my trust completely in you. Hold my hand as I walk this difficult journey. Send angels to minister to me.
In Jesus name I pray.
amen