Prayer For Unsaved Spouse

Holy Spirit, show me specifically how to minister to each member of my familywhether I should be merciful to those who doubt; save others by snatching them from the fire; [or] show mercy, mixed with fear (Jude 1:23). Reveal opportunities to share about You, and give me the strength to obey when You open the door.


Father, give my husband a discerning heart to know Your great love for him and the great plans You have for him and our family. Plans to prosper and not to harm, to give us hope and a future. (Jeremiah 29:11)

Father, give my husband the mind of Christ, saturate it with godly wisdom. Help him to take every thought captive that is not in obedience to Your Word, and in so doing protect him from pride and temptation. (1 Corinthians 2:16, 2 Corinthians 10:5)

Father, open the eyes of my husband's heart to understand Your Word, so that he won't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of his mind so that he may know Your good, acceptable and perfect will for his life and our marriage. (Romans 12:2)

Father, help my husband to trust in You with all his heart, not depending on his own understanding, but acknowledging You in all his ways, so he knows what direction our family should take. (Proverbs 3:5-6)

Father, may the favor of the Lord rest on my husband. Bless and establish the work of his hands and his heart. (Psalm 90:17)

Father, help us to live together in perfect unity by loving, honoring and respecting one another and serving each other for Your glory, honor and praise! (1 Thessalonians 5:13)

Friend, when we replace our toxic thoughts with the precious Word of God and then pray those words, we pray the Word that is living and active, capable of changing hearts and minds. We are praying the mind and will of God, as revealed in His Word, into our marriages!

So pray with hope, boldness and confidence! God will be faithful to honor His Word.

Heavenly Father, replace my toxic thoughts with Your life-giving words and teach me to pray those words over my heart, my husband and my marriage. In Jesus' Name, Amen.


Lord you are not the author of confusion. Your word says that you hate divorce and that you love justice. You hate robbery and wrongdoing and reward your children for the suffering. Father you are a God of unity.

Your word and it is a living word declares that a man shall leave his father and mother and shall be joined to his wife, the two shall now be one. Let no one separate them for God has joined them together.

Remember your promised word lord and that it is not good for man to be alone. I pray that today you are working and dealing with my husband and these are the reasons for the trials and problems he sees himself under.

I pray that through these times it is your holy spirit convicting him to lay his secret sins before you and ask you into his heart and life. What a joy it will be in my home and my marriage will begin to take on a new strength in unity, love, joy and peace.

Father restore what the evil one has tried many of times to do but lord your hand has stop the enemy because of your love for me and your mercy to me. I pray lord that today is the day of miracles, that today is the day of transformations and changes of hearts in my husband towards me and my children. Lord it is through you that these prayers will be answered.

You command in your living word to use your name for the power needed to bring about our faith in our prayers. I so ask today in your name Jesus for the changes in my husband and his salvation to come and be the man of integrity and righteous before you. Amen


Father God, once again I come to you for guidance and help. It is my desire to have a husband who fears You, who walk in Your ways.

Help my husband to see the truth of Your Word. Open up the eyes of his heart. Remove from him a heart of stone and replace it with a heart of flesh. I pray for your Holy Spirit to work on him on his life.

Give him a sound mind and help him to be faithful to his marriage vows. Create in him a clean heart and renew a right spirit within him.

I pray that he will shun the very thought of evil, impurity, pornography, adultery, perversion, unfaithfulness from his mind.

Help him to take charge of his spirit and to resist temptation. May he abhor evil and cling to what is good.

I pray that he will choose Godly friends and Godly counsels that can influence him in positive ways. Let him not be a man who is unteachable, Father.

Surround him with Godly friends, I pray.


Dear Heavenly Father,

We lift up husbands today, specifically ones who do not have a personal relationship with You. We intercede for them and ask that You would reveal Yourself to them in great, miraculous ways! We pray that they acknowledge and confess Your Son Jesus as Lord and Savior of their lives! We pray that they would surrender their lives to You, find their identity in You, and assume the responsibility You have given them as leader of the home! Please Lord, help them see the truth. May their wives continue to pray in faith for their husband's salvation. Help these women to endure, especially when hope seems dim! Use these wives to bless their husbands and to be an example of Your love to them. Reconcile these husbands hearts to You in Jesus' name AMEN!


Dear Lord Jesus, I did not realise the significance of getting married to an unbeliever until we started to have a family. I am so sad that teaching our children about the Creation and Salvation and even the significance of Israel and the falling economy that we are currently hearing about in the news today, is beyond my husbands understanding. But Lord, I desire to bring my children up in the fear of the Lord, and I ache to have my husband involved in teaching them the truths of Scripture.

Lord, I don't know how, but Lord, I ask that in a wonderful way You would bring my unsaved husband to a saving faith in Jesus, so that together we may bring up our children to know and trust the Lord. Soften my husband's heart towards the things of God I pray, and I ask that You also protect the hearts and minds of the children from some of the unbiblical views that he has on creation and heaven, which conflict with so much Christian truth.

Forgive me Lord, for being unwise in my choice of marriage partner, but I ask that in Your grace, You would draw by dear husband to trust in Jesus - soon Lord I pray - but Your will and timing be done, not mine. In Jesus' name I pray,

Amen.


Dear Lord, have mercy on my unsaved husband. I pray that he will come to full and free salvation. Have mercy on him Lord, and draw him to Yourself with Your cords of love, I pray. Help him to see the destructive nature of sin, and I pray that he will repent and turn to the cross of Christ.

Give me patience to wait for Your best timing and wisdom so that I know when to speak and when to remain silent about You. Thank You that it is not your will that my husband would perish, and I pray that Your will be done in his life. I ask this in the name of Jesus,

Amen.


"Dear God, neither my husband nor I were saved when we were first married and things were pretty good between us. But now Father God, I have become born again and become a new Christian, a new creation in Christ, and it is causing strife between us.

It grieves me Father, that the love we once shared has become so sour, simply because I have started to trust in the Lord Jesus as my Saviour. My husband thinks I am soppy and is not interested in anything I say about Jesus, and is starting to get quite angry about it.

Please help me Lord. Help me to be strong and help me to grow in my faith and not to give up. Help me to somehow tell my husband of the good news of the gospel of grace. I want him to know that the Lord Christ died for his sins and took the punishment that he deserved, and that He rose again on the third day and broke the power of death in the lives of believers. The gospel is so wonderful and I just long that he comes to faith too.

Please Lord, I know that nothing is impossible for You to do, and I ask that you show my husband the truth. I pray that one day soon he will be saved, like me. I pray this in Jesus' name,

Amen."